Okay.

You’re invited to a bbq.

You can’t go to the host’s place because your daughter his having a friend sleep over that day.

You arrange to have the bbq at your place instead.

The host has already purchased the food and offers to bring the meat etc with them.

So, my question is this : who cooks the bbq?

This isn’t covered in secret men’s business or ‘the talk’ from Dad.

Which takes precedence? The provider of flame or the provider of meat. My head is spinning and we may never eat if this conundrum isn’t solved.